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10‑Week Gay Relationship Coaching for Healthy, Lasting Love - Radiant Hearts Transformation

A 10‑week program for gay men who are ready to stop repeating toxic patterns, heal gay heartbreak, and create a healthy gay relationship with emotionally available partners.

Overcome gay heartbreak, deepen your self-love, and learn how to build healthy gay relationships that feel safe, grounded, and real.

What Is Radiant Hearts Transformation?

Radiant Hearts Transformation is my 10‑week gay relationship coaching program for men who are tired of chasing emotionally unavailable men, repeating the same painful dating patterns, or feeling stuck in gay heartbreak.

Inside this program, we combine RTT®, hypnotherapy, and coaching to help you:

Heal the root causes of your relationship patterns

Rebuild gay self-love and self-worth

Learn what a healthy gay relationship actually looks and feels like

Attract and maintain emotionally available, grounded love

This isn’t generic life coaching. It’s a structured, trauma-aware journey designed specifically for gay men who want healthy, lasting relationships.

What You’ll Walk Away With

By the end of this 10‑week gay relationship coaching program, you will:

  • Understand why you’ve been drawn to emotionally unavailable or inconsistent men—and how to change that pattern.

  • Build deeper gay self-love and self-worth, so you stop settling for crumbs in love.

  • Know the signs of a healthy gay relationship and how to maintain one over time.

  • Feel more secure in yourself, whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship.

  • Have practical tools to calm your nervous system, handle conflict, and communicate your needs without fear of abandonment.

Discover the 10 Transformative Modules of Radiant Hearts Transformation

Each module in this gay relationship coaching program is designed to help you break toxic dating patterns, heal heartbreak, and create lasting, healthy love as a gay man. Explore the journey below.

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Module One: Mastering Your Mindset Blueprint
Outcome: Establish a powerful mental foundation for transformation and for creating a different experience in love as a gay man.
Begin your journey by exploring the connection between your thoughts and experiences. Learn practical techniques to reshape your mindset and clear away limiting beliefs. This foundational module sets the stage for lasting positive change. You’ll start to see how your thoughts and beliefs have shaped your love life so far, and how you can begin to build the mindset needed for a healthy gay relationship.
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Module Two: Discovery Session – Unveiling Your Story
Outcome: Gain clarity on your experiences and perspectives.
In this insightful session, we’ll explore your unique story and background. By understanding your experiences and perspectives, we’ll identify key patterns and influences, setting the stage for a personalized transformational journey. This foundational clarity is essential for meaningful progress. We’ll look at how your story as a gay man—family, culture, religion, dating experiences—has shaped the way you show up in relationships today.
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Module Three: In-Depth Exploration – Mapping Your Path Forward
Outcome: Comprehensive understanding of your current situation and goals.
Continuing from Module 2, this module dives deeper into your experiences, challenges, and aspirations. Through strategic questioning and open dialogue, we’ll map out your transformational path. This session provides crucial insights to tailor the journey to your unique needs. Together, we’ll map out a clear path toward healing gay heartbreak, breaking toxic dating patterns, and moving toward the kind of healthy gay relationship you actually want.
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Module Four: Activating Transformative Shifts
Outcome: Experience powerful breakthroughs and inner growth.
This pivotal module is where transformation truly ignites. You’ll engage in powerful exercises that challenge old patterns and open the door to profound shifts. This is a cornerstone experience that accelerates your journey, setting the tone for continuous growth. This is often where you start to feel real shifts in how you relate to yourself and to men—letting go of old stories about not being enough, or only attracting emotionally unavailable partners.
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Module Five: Mastering Mental Dynamics – The Rules of the Mind
Outcome: Understand and leverage the mind’s powerful mechanisms.
Discover the hidden rules governing how your mind operates. We’ll explore powerful insights about familiarity and comfort zones, equipping you with tools to reframe and reshape your experiences. This knowledge empowers you to navigate change with confidence and intention. Understanding how your mind works makes it easier to stop chasing what’s familiar but unhealthy, and start choosing partners and dynamics that are actually good for you as a gay man.
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Module Six: Momentum Check-In – Refining Your Path
Outcome: Reinforced progress and strategic adjustments.
Reflect on your journey so far, celebrate your wins, and address any challenges. This session provides a safe space to recalibrate your strategies and maintain momentum. We’ll refine your path to ensure alignment with your goals and continued progress. We’ll look at how these shifts are showing up in your dating life or relationship, and refine your path so you keep moving toward a healthier, more grounded experience of love.
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Module Seven: Deepening Self-Love and Acceptance
Outcome: Cultivate unshakable self-worth and self-love as a gay man.
Dive into practices that enhance your self-love journey. This module is designed to help you reconnect with your true self, fostering a sense of worthiness and inner peace that supports authentic relationships. This is where gay self-love becomes real in your body—not just a concept. The more you feel worthy and enough, the less you tolerate crumbs in relationships.
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Module Eight: Inner Peace and Emotional Renewal
Outcome: Achieve profound relaxation and emotional clarity.
Immerse yourself in a restorative experience designed to release stress and promote inner peace. Guided relaxation and visualization exercises help you reconnect with your inner calm, paving the way for emotional renewal. This emotional reset supports you in dating and relationships, so you’re not constantly reacting from old wounds or gay heartbreak.
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Module Nine: Vision Crafting and Manifestation
Outcome: Align your vision with purposeful intention.
Channel the power of visualization to bring your dreams to life. This week, you’ll create a vivid vision of your ideal future, setting clear intentions and leveraging powerful manifestation techniques. We’ll get specific about what a healthy gay relationship looks like for you—how you want to feel, how you want to be treated, and what kind of man you want to call in.
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Module Ten: Empowered Confidence Integration – I AM ENOUGH!
Outcome: Step confidently into your transformed self.
Conclude your journey by solidifying your newfound confidence and self-worth. Through empowering affirmations and integration exercises, you’ll embrace your transformation, ready to live authentically and powerfully. You’ll leave this program with a deeper sense of “I am enough” as a gay man in love, no longer chasing validation from emotionally unavailable partners, but choosing relationships that truly honor you.

Radiant Hearts Transformation is for you if:

  • You identify as a gay man (or queer man) and your main struggle is love and relationships.
  • You keep attracting emotionally unavailable men or ending up in situationships that never fully commit.
  • You’re healing from a gay breakup or gay heartbreak and don’t want to repeat the same story again.
  • You want to understand and transform your patterns at a deep, subconscious level—not just talk about them.
  • You’re ready to invest time, energy, and honesty into creating a healthy gay relationship with yourself and others.

This program is not for you if:

  • You’re looking for quick dating hacks without doing inner work.
  • You’re not open to exploring your emotions, beliefs, and past experiences.
  • You want someone to “fix” your partner instead of looking at your own patterns.
  • You’re not willing to commit to 10 weeks of consistent sessions and practices.

About Lonay Halloum

I’m Lonay Halloum, the founder of Radiant Hearts Transformation and a gay relationship coach for men. I’m a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community with a past marked by adversity, identity struggles, and my own toxic relationship patterns.

Certified in RTT® and hypnotherapy, I use my deep understanding of social pressures and personal trials to offer empathetic and insightful coaching for gay men. I facilitate a journey towards self-acceptance, healing gay heartbreak, and creating healthy gay relationships within a supportive and safe environment.

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Lonay Halloum, gay relationship coach and founder of Radiant Hearts Transformation

Frequently Asked Questions

Q1 – How can I find a gay boyfriend who actually wants a serious relationship?

Many gay men tell me they can meet guys, but struggle to find someone who is truly emotionally available and ready for commitment. In this program, we work on the patterns and beliefs that keep pulling you toward the same types of men, and we define what a healthy gay relationship looks like for you. From there, you learn to recognize red flags earlier and choose partners who can actually meet you. Read this article: How to Find A Boyfriend (Gay)?

Q2 – What are the signs of a healthy gay relationship?

A healthy gay relationship isn’t about perfection or zero conflict. It looks like: mutual respect, clear communication, emotional availability, shared responsibility, and feeling safe to be fully yourself. In Radiant Hearts Transformation, we explore these signs in detail so you can spot them—and build them—in your own love life.

Q3 – How do I maintain a healthy gay relationship over time?

Maintaining a healthy gay relationship means tending to your own nervous system, communicating honestly, and not abandoning yourself to keep the peace. We work on emotional regulation, boundaries, and self-worth so you can show up as a grounded partner, not a people-pleaser or fixer.

Q4 – How can I stop chasing emotionally unavailable men?

Chasing emotionally unavailable men is usually a sign of deep, familiar patterns, not a personal failure. Together, we uncover where those patterns started, heal the underlying wounds, and rewire your beliefs about what love is supposed to feel like. As you build gay self-love and a new internal baseline, you naturally stop chasing what hurts you. Read this article: Why Am I Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men?

Q5 – How do I heal from a gay breakup or gay heartbreak?

Gay heartbreak can feel especially intense because it often touches old wounds around rejection, shame, or not feeling enough. In this program, we use RTT®, hypnotherapy, and coaching to process the pain, release emotional residue, and rebuild your sense of self so you don’t repeat the same story in your next relationship.

Q6 – What is gay self-love and why does it matter for relationships?

Gay self-love is about fully accepting yourself as a gay man—your desires, your body, your history—without shame. When you feel worthy and enough, you stop settling for half-hearted attention or inconsistent partners. That’s why this program includes deep work on self-worth and identity, not just dating strategies.

Q7 – How is working with a gay dating coach different from regular relationship coaching?

As a gay relationship and dating coach, I understand the specific challenges gay men face: internalized homophobia, family or religious rejection, hookup culture, ageism, and more. This program is designed for gay men, so you don’t have to explain or justify your experience—we start from a place of understanding and go deeper from there.

Radiant Hearts Transformation is a 10‑week gay relationship coaching program for men around the world. Whether you’re healing from a gay breakup, stuck in unhealthy dating patterns, or longing for a healthy gay relationship, this gay coaching journey is designed to help you feel safe, chosen, and loved—starting from the inside out.

Ready to Create a Healthy Gay Relationship?

Empowering gay men to break free from heartbreak, stop chasing emotionally unavailable men, and thrive in love.

Overcome gay heartbreak, transform toxic dating patterns, and attract emotionally available love through structured gay relationship coaching.