LGBTQ+ Breakup Recovery & Relationship Coaching

“To anyone considering working with this very talented man - I first heard Lonay on a podcast I frequently listen to and was caught by his depth of knowledge about gay relationships. He truly knows his way thru this often messy space. When I reached out to him to find out about the details of his program, I was surprised by the amount of time he sets aside for the sessions with his clients. You truly feel like you’re his only client and have access to all of his talent. His program is very detailed and very specific to your situation and needs. He holds you accountable each week and there's homework between sessions to help keep you on track. I came into this from a very difficult situation of a broken marriage with significant betrayal and heartbreak. I was so afraid to be alone that I just let myself be a doormat, afraid to speak my truth for fear of being alone. With Lonay’s coaching and deep dives into lifelong patterns, I was able to find my voice. With my voice came courage and the resounding truth that “I Am Enough”. This has been a life changing experience. I left the broken relationship and with each day I’m more comfortable being just me. Ive relocated to a new city and have been meeting new friends. Each day gets better than before. I now look forward to being just me in my own space. New friends are wanting to introduce me to single guys. While I’m not quite ready to start dating again, that day is getting closer. I feel like I’m in a much better space to show up as a genuinely loving partner with the comfort and knowledge I’m gaining in learning to love myself. If you’re stuck in a relationship that isn’t working for you, you need to work with this man. Whether you can work thru the issues in your relationship and come out the other side in a much better place or if leaving because its too far gone to save, you will find your voice and be able to figure out the best path of your long term happiness. I am truly grateful beyond words for having crossed paths with this beautiful soul.”

“Lonay’s methods unlocked something deep inside of me. I explored topics I had spoken about ad nauseam with other providers, but approaching them through an alternative method was incredibly healing. I now have a remarkably evolved relationship with my inner child.”

“My experience with Lonay to date has been life changing for me, his ability to connect, his patience and openness have encouraged me to reach places within myself that I hadn’t accessed before in my search for inner healing of the wounded child and as a same sex attracted man from the start of life. This long journey has brought me to a place of peace where I can now allow the healing to flow. I am inspired by this young man and his ability to convey important deep connection with his personalised meditations, which have helped reprogram the parts of my subconscious most in need of healing. I can only say from my experience, Lonay is an excellent coach in this field, thank you Lonay. P.S. Lonay is very generous with his time and effort too... My introduction to Lonay was through an interview with Matt Landsiedel on ‘gay men's brotherhood’ podcast earlier this summer which lead me to inquire of his services.”